My daughter says interesting things.
"When I go out, I always look for people who resemble someone I know on the street. Like people from school or teachers. And I walk around thinking, 'This person really looks like XX-chan from XX class.' I see them quite often."
"Wow, that's interesting!"
"Yeah, but I've never seen anyone who looks like me."
"Well, of course, because there is only one such cute girl in this world."
It is an indescribable conversation, and it is indescribably happy.
No matter what anyone says, no matter if you are made fun of, I always tell her to believe in herself and just do what she wants to do. But if she forgets consideration for others and becomes selfish, I always give her a massive scolding. That is our everyday life.
Putting oneself first means believing in oneself, but it cannot be established without consideration for others. We don't live on a deserted island, and someone is always supporting us somewhere.
Therefore, I think putting oneself first cannot work without consideration for others. That is the kind of talk we always have.